Organize your LOVE.

The definition of organizing is the act of rearranging elements following one or more rules. Anything is commonly considered organized when it looks like everything has a correct order or placement. Seeing a space organized is easy, because it is visible. But how is a relationship organized and more importantly how do we organize ourselves to prepare for a relationship?

I think that we must organize ourselves before we even think about leaping into a relationship. I think we need to be happy, proud of who we are, and to love ourselves. It is almost impossible to love someone else if we do not love ourselves. Because if we do not love ourselves, we think that we are not worthy of being loved. So let’s start by giving love to ourselves, smiling at who we are. Of course there are always elements that we want to change about ourselves and those are great to help us set future goals. Organize your goals by setting short term and long term goals. The short term goals are the ones that help us get to our long term goals. (Write these down, it helps! It is also a neat way to see your progress and growth.)

Sometimes I think we try to find something in a relationship that is missing in ourselves. We seek another companion because that makes it easier to focus less on ourselves. But that is not healthy, and you and I both know it will never last if it starts out like this. So go on, get yourself organized, reach your goals, be proud of who you have become. Your happiness will be contagious and it will not only bring yourself love but will help you find love.